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Living while Black: The Bruce Banner Syndrome

June 20, 2020 8 Comments

I cried at work the other day to my closest, white coworker. I wasn't at all embarrassed and ...

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“When life gives you lemons, make orange juice a

“When life gives you lemons, make orange juice and leave everyone wondering how you did it.”

It’s no secret that I’m not average (humbly speaking) but truth is I get dealt bad hands allllll the time which is how I got to be so! Trauma, trauma, trauma!!! Constantly rising from the ashes more improved than the last time. Reborn I guess you could say. Sometimes it takes the hottest fire to mold you into who you’re meant to be.

When I get lemons…..I flip it…..and end up winning. 🤷🏽‍♀️ God carries me through it all and I let Him.

But I’m healing it all in 2022 so when you see me on top, know I earned every bit of that ish and I deserve it! 😉

So hey 2022!!! I’m ready! Every year is personal but this one is very different. I’m taking #selfcare intensely serious this year because sometimes you are all you have.

How’s your 2022 going so far?

📸: Brandy Nicole
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#blackgirlswhomanifest #blackwomenwhoplanandcreate #melaninqueensonly #sisterlockedandlovingit #sisterlocks #lightcaptured

Where have I been? . . Y'all she has been focused

Where have I been?
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Y'all she has been focused. Let me catch you up.
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1. I quit my job. Well I changed my status to be exact but it's mostly the same thing. But it was just time....time to venture into other things...time to gain some control in my life....time to find peace. More on this soon.
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2. I've sold my house. I know, I know. Now's a good time to do so. Keep reading.
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3. My family and I decided to go full RV living, so follow us @wileykoyotes to see our crazy adventures. This is the biggest one. We've decided to live life now and not wait. Interestingly enough I've evolved into a #mommyblogger after all. I'm learning to embrace that for sure.
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4. I've decided to pivot in a major way. Being in this space is so time consuming and finding a way to add value has been my biggest quest. Did I want to be a mommy blogger? Yes and no. I couldn't figure out how to serve so I stopped serving at all.
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5. I have more surprises coming but in due time. I can't wait to share with you.
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Thanks for rocking with me and staying (for those who have). And thanks for letting me catch you up.
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#mombloggerlife #scblogger #blacklifestyleblogger #inspiringwomen #blackwomenwriters #columbiasc

Until very recently I always matched the energy br

Until very recently I always matched the energy brought to me...good, bad, and/or ugly. ⁠
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It's not right but it's just how it's been. I'm learning to let people carry their energy and give them MY light or nothing at all. Because truth is, they don't control me. ⁠
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This how by far been the biggest lesson of 2021 for me. Don't let others tear into the good things about you because they never tell others how they treated you. It's only ever told how you responded. ⁠
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#blackgirlsdoitbetter #melaninated #blackintelligence #slayingthegame #strongblackwomen⁠
#blacknursesrock #nursebae #nurseofinstagram

What more can I say! ⁠ .⁠ .⁠ Share so who ne

What more can I say! ⁠
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Share so who needs to see it, sees it! ⁠
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#mindsetshift #ruleyourlife #mindsetcoaching #beabetterme #successtips #successtip⁠
#readytogrow #quantumleap #shakethingsup #nextlevellife #yourcoach #abundancemindset #goalcoach #defineyourlife #actioncoach⁠
#powerhousenurses #nurseofinstagram #blacknurses ⁠
#businessmom #mompreneurs #mompreneurlife⁠
#momsinbiz #momentrepreneur #womanwholead

Growing up with little makes you grow into a perso

Growing up with little makes you grow into a person who cherishes the smallest things. ⁠
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And I do! But I'm learning to let go of things I thought I needed over the past year. I don't mean even just materialistic things either. I push hard to help others rid their lives of toxicity because I've been doing the same. ⁠
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In doing so, I've been in a depressive state and interestingly enough it's from grieving the removal of those toxic people, places, and spaces. Things I absolutely know need to go. ⁠
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I know all too well that you grow through what you go through so be ok during the hard times. Only eagles fly into the storm. 🦅⁠
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I'll change your life if you let me. And you'll love me for it. ⁠
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#levelupcoach #mindsetcoach #mindsetcoachingforwomen #mindsetcoaches #mindsetcoaching #personalgrowthjourney #personalgrowthtips #persongrowthanddevelopment #personalgrowthforwomen #personalgrowthmindset #personalgrowthjunkie #blackwomenrock #blackwomenmatter #blackwomenwriters #blackwomeninluxury #blackwomenlead #columbiasc

Would you wear this? ⁠
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👍🏽 or 👎🏽⁠
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I remember all the times I told me husband, "I don't have anything to wear." and his reply would be, "But you have a closet full of clothes." I couldn't argue there. ⁠
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How many times do we have a closet full of clothes but feel comfortable and beautiful in only 25% of the stuff? That's been my problem for many years. That's why I've decided to clear it all out and keep that 25%. And I ask myself, "Do you really love love it?" before replacing any one piece. ⁠
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📸: pinterest find⁠

Happy Labor Day folks!⁠ .⁠ .⁠ How ironic is

Happy Labor Day folks!⁠
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How ironic is a day created to pay tribute to that fact that the labor of American workers has contributed to the success of America....by giving them ONE day off?!? ⁠
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I remember being asked what I wanted to be as a child. Because I said "A doctor or lawyer." I don't remember being told many other options. But now I know better. ⁠
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I also know that when you love it for real, it's not work. So remember, if when you're at that job or you're doing that work, and you don't love it for real, it's not where you're meant to be. It's ok to move on. ⁠
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#purposefilledlife #livepurposefully #becomingmore #livingauthentically #truesuccess

Whe you know you know, right? . . One thing that

Whe you know you know, right?
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One thing that has become very clear in my life is that I was born to be a champion. And the only person who can control my destiny is me.
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So I leave you with these. Grab life by the horns and ride it…..HARD. 😎
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📸: @dmariephotographyga
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LIPS: @thelipbar
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“Old ideas are your biggest liability.”-Rich D

“Old ideas are your biggest liability.”-Rich Dad, Poor Dad
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I started praying for vision so I can let go of old ideas. Since, it has all become clear.
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Nothing annoys me more than people who say, ⁠
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“Money isn’t everything.” 🙄 Me: “You’re right. Money is everything.” There are few things I can do without it. 🤷🏽‍♀️⁠
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We have to start thinking in terms of A-B-U-N-D-A-N-C-E! We can’t be friends if you’re small minded…at least not today. 😉 ⁠
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A lot about how you live starts in the mind. 🧠 Be sure to treat your mind well by telling it great things. ⁠
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What are your thoughts on money? Have you been groomed to not want more of it? ⁠
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📸: @dmariephotographyga ⁠

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