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“Be warned that this article is not for the faint of heart or easily embarrassed. It is meant to educate and aid in more pleasurable sexual experiences with your partner.”Nia Wiley
25% of women consistently orgasm during vaginal intercourse. Read more here. No wonder why women fake orgasms. I remember having a conversation many years ago with a group of women (some married) and hearing a few of them say that they’d NEVER had an orgasm. Insert wide-eyed emoji here. How is that even possible? I’ll tell you how! Because everyone clams up about sex talk and have made it taboo. Seriously people come on. We are mammals and meant to “do it”. Please drop the knowledge you have on it and make me better. I, personally, prefer not to have a dull sex life. In fact, my dream job is being a sex therapist but the need for more college deters me.
We all know that the majority of sexual encounters end with men “finishing” the job so to speak. Ladies we have to do better to find our own pleasure during sexual encounters as well. We should want him to be left speechless but not at our expense. Sex should be something that both parties enjoy and orgasms should be the goal for everyone. Don’t be afraid to incorporate things such as vibrators and toys to get the job done. Don’t sell yourself short. Sex toys not your thing? Don’ fret but keep reading.
I have found 5 positions that are easy and are known to help women have orgasms and stimulate the g-spot. Pick a couple of your favorites and put them to use tonight. Your body will thank you.
So I’m the friend that jokes about how boring basic missionary sex is. That is not what we’re talking about here. We are are going to add a little spice to the basic form by simple use of pillows. You can be an overachiever if you’d like and try a wedge like the one here. The point is to provide you, the woman, with the ability to grind your clitoris against his pubic bone. He’s also more likely to stimulate your g-spot due to the upward angle of the vagina during intercourse.
The doggy position is the number 1 sexual position amongst men and women. Doggy-style is good but to increase the likelihood of an orgasm for you simply lay flat on your stomach. This allows for a deeper penetration and likelihood that the head of the penis will stimulate the g-spot. To ensure a big “O” use a wand vibrator like this one to stimulate the clitoris. Don’t be shy. It won’t bite.
Sit to Stand
This position allows your clitoris to be stimulated when allowing for deeper penetration as well. To achieve this position, you lay with you butt as close to the edge of the bed as possible. You either put your legs around his waist or over his shoulders. This intensifies his ability to thrust deeply, thus stimulating the g-spot. Feel free to use a vibrator here for additional stimulation.
This is not the position to try with someone you don’t like because you’ll both be close and personal. That’s totally humor. Anywho, this is not an easy position to get into. It will depend on the flexibility of both parties and body make-ups. Using wedges and pillows may make it slightly easier. This position results in more grinding than thrusting because of the closeness. Be sure to use this position to connect with your significant other in an intimate way.
This is likely a position that you may have already tried a time or two. I’ll be honest here. I love this position. It allows the woman total control of positioning for maximum clitoral stimulation. In this position, have the man lay flat and straddle across him. Rock your hips back and forth with the goal of simulating your g-spot. Be sure to rock your hips and avoid bouncing up and down.
Be sure to implement at least one of these positions during your sexual encounter. The guys don’t get to have all the fun and at the current rate that woman are climaxing, looks like you’ll be doing yourself a favor. Let’s work on closing the climax gap.